I feel not every man, really know how to make his woman happy. All ladies have their own wants. And all men has theirs too, understanding this wants is a successful relationship.
Life isn't all about making someone happy, all time, or expecting to be made happy. At times it is about WHAT YOU CAN DO TO MAKE YOUR SELF HAPPY. In marriage the joy of the home is about every member of the family to make themselves happy, all responsibility isn't put on the hubby. Yes i know, some would say "he is the man he is suppose to make me happy and provide for my needs" you right to an extend if you say that. But please be considerate and look at it at another point of view. WHAT IF HE DOESN'T HAVE MUCH and he is trying. Are you not suppose to help out as a woman.
The word that says woman are to assist men, doesn't say it is a must he must have. Not all fingers are equal you know, and our destiny and stars are different. If your spouse has not achieve yet, and you got their before him, Help him out. that is the meaning of assisting. You need to assist him to achieve his goals for him to lead your home in the right way.
QUARREL AMONG Spouse
A quoter said " LIFE DOESN'T COME WITH A MANUEL, or INSTRUCTION SORRY I AM NOT PERFECT" Akinrinsola Olamide says.
To me honest, show me a successful marriage without their differences.
Marriage, relationship, dating, is a union of two different people from different location, different background, different life coming together to become one. I actually never believe anyone needs to change for the other. All we all need to do is ENDURANCE endure each other.
Take attitude you never believe you can take from anyone, try to be understanding, and if you are not the understanding type, accept who your spouse is. Remember, you are of different upbringing. If your marriage, relationship lacks understanding, then it isnt directing to success.
DONT change your spouse by force, accept the faults, accepts your wrong, correct if necessary, only in a loving way, it takes time to change to a new life, it take time to get new things, but with love, compassion, care getting things will be easy....
FIGHT, QUARREL ISNT SUPPOSE TO BE A BREAK UP- We fight , we argue, we argue, we curse, but we never break. that should be your keep.
My name is Jennifer Kimberly smith and this is my blog post.... have a nice day.
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